POSTED: 01:30 a.m. HST, Nov 25, 2008
The good news is that it doesn't have to be that way. Planning and good money management can get you sensibly through the season.
Ed Pei, First Hawaiian Bank's executive vice president of consumer loans, and Wendy Burkholder, executive director of the nonprofit Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Hawaii, are trained professionals when it comes to the ins and outs of consumer spending. Taking their suggestions and adding ideas from several Web sites, here are five things you can do to keep Christmas spending in line:
"Budgeting is probably the most crucial part for the consumer family," says Burkholder, adding that most people "compartmentalize" their spending and don't realize what the total adds up to.
Now you can make an educated decision as to how much money you can spend on gifts and other holiday expenses.
Be cautious. It can be tempting to plan on using next spring's tax refund to pay off this year's Christmas debt, but if your car radiator blows up or the refrigerator dies in the interim, you might not be able to do so.
Instead of expensive individual gifts, families could opt for one big-ticket item, such as a new television. Large extended families could opt to draw names in a "secret Santa" exchange with a set price limit, rather than invest in a lot of smaller gifts for everyone.
Free up money for gifts by cutting back on cards. Send a holiday postcard instead, or an e-mail, or make a phone call (depending on your long-distance service).
Also, prioritize the relative importance of gifts versus the cost of hosting parties, buying more figures for the lawn display or having a Christmas tree.
Prioritizing also involves enforcing realistic limits after the "need-to-have" living expenses have been covered. The kids may have to make do with five gifts this year instead of 10.
"It comes back to the consumer," Burkholder says. "It's about discipline and awareness. You're given rope, (but) the question is, Are you going to hang yourself with it?"
Avoid the "noose" by spending wisely and choosing each gift with care. How many of the gifts you received last year do you still remember? Will the item you're buying be treasured by the recipient, or will it be set aside and quickly forgotten? Some children take care of their toys; others trash them. Gift accordingly.
It's easy while spending your hard-earned money on gifts for others to also buy a few "gifts" for yourself. Don't do it. That's not what you're there for!
First Hawaiian Bank's Pei points out that credit and debit card issuers will help consumers resolve problems with merchants - a good reason to use credit cards if you can do so wisely. Credit card receipts are also easy to keep track of.
The key is being aware of how much you've spent. If you've spent 80 percent of your Christmas budget and Christmas is still two weeks away, you'll know that you need to adjust your spending accordingly.
Consider nonseasonal "Christmas" gifts. If you see something in June that someone on your list would like, give it to them then. They'll be able to enjoy it that much sooner, and that's one less person you'll have to shop for when time is short, money is tight and the malls are gridlocked.
The best time to buy Christmas cards, wrapping paper and decorations is the day after Christmas. Buy then, but only if you have the storage space and can afford to have that money tied up until next season.
» More ideas: childcare.about.com, frugalliving.about.com, daveramsey.com,
greendoc.net, hubpages.com/search/christmas+budget, moneysmartlife.com.
Every year we hear the horror stories. People with good intentions spend much more than they should on Christmas presents and all the related seasonal expenses, then find themselves deep in debt when the bills come due in early in the new year. Some victims of seasonal overspending find themselves on a slippery slope of personal debt that can end in disaster.
The good news is that it doesn't have to be that way. Planning and good money management can get you sensibly through the season.
Ed Pei, First Hawaiian Bank's executive vice president of consumer loans, and Wendy Burkholder, executive director of the nonprofit Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Hawaii, are trained professionals when it comes to the ins and outs of consumer spending. Taking their suggestions and adding ideas from several Web sites, here are five things you can do to keep Christmas spending in line:
"Budgeting is probably the most crucial part for the consumer family," says Burkholder, adding that most people "compartmentalize" their spending and don't realize what the total adds up to.
Now you can make an educated decision as to how much money you can spend on gifts and other holiday expenses.
Be cautious. It can be tempting to plan on using next spring's tax refund to pay off this year's Christmas debt, but if your car radiator blows up or the refrigerator dies in the interim, you might not be able to do so.
Instead of expensive individual gifts, families could opt for one big-ticket item, such as a new television. Large extended families could opt to draw names in a "secret Santa" exchange with a set price limit, rather than invest in a lot of smaller gifts for everyone.
Free up money for gifts by cutting back on cards. Send a holiday postcard instead, or an e-mail, or make a phone call (depending on your long-distance service).
Also, prioritize the relative importance of gifts versus the cost of hosting parties, buying more figures for the lawn display or having a Christmas tree.
Prioritizing also involves enforcing realistic limits after the "need-to-have" living expenses have been covered. The kids may have to make do with five gifts this year instead of 10.
"It comes back to the consumer," Burkholder says. "It's about discipline and awareness. You're given rope, (but) the question is, Are you going to hang yourself with it?"
Avoid the "noose" by spending wisely and choosing each gift with care. How many of the gifts you received last year do you still remember? Will the item you're buying be treasured by the recipient, or will it be set aside and quickly forgotten? Some children take care of their toys; others trash them. Gift accordingly.
It's easy while spending your hard-earned money on gifts for others to also buy a few "gifts" for yourself. Don't do it. That's not what you're there for!
First Hawaiian Bank's Pei points out that credit and debit card issuers will help consumers resolve problems with merchants - a good reason to use credit cards if you can do so wisely. Credit card receipts are also easy to keep track of.
The key is being aware of how much you've spent. If you've spent 80 percent of your Christmas budget and Christmas is still two weeks away, you'll know that you need to adjust your spending accordingly.
Consider nonseasonal "Christmas" gifts. If you see something in June that someone on your list would like, give it to them then. They'll be able to enjoy it that much sooner, and that's one less person you'll have to shop for when time is short, money is tight and the malls are gridlocked.
The best time to buy Christmas cards, wrapping paper and decorations is the day after Christmas. Buy then, but only if you have the storage space and can afford to have that money tied up until next season.
» More ideas: childcare.about.com, frugalliving.about.com, daveramsey.com,
greendoc.net, hubpages.com/search/christmas+budget, moneysmartlife.com.